Wednesday, April 1, 2009

nmpk best, tp x elok..

ok..all this time, i have a thing with shaking hands with the males. this is all started when i realised that my female cousins never did it, and most of my pious uncles, weren't really into shaking hands with me. (x..tgn sy x jijik..bce lagi)

then, i realised that skin contact with the opposite sex, is haraam. why? to my opinion, it's because, it may lead to other things..more explanation, read this .

then, while i was reading a collection of hadith, i found this:

"Sesungguhnya kepala yang ditusuk dengan besi itu lebih baik daripada menyentuh kaum yang bukan sejenis yang tidak halal baginya." Riwayat At Tabrani dan Baihaqi.


terkejut kan? kalau pk2 kan, btul jgk...

kepala ditusuk besi --> mati (da xde chance nk tmbh dosa kn?) kurg sket seksaan kite nnt..

pgg2 tgn --> mle la pgg2 lain, pastu buat tu2, pastu ade anak haram. klu anak tu turns out to be good, xpe. klu anak tu rebel sbb status x diiktiraf, or klu anak tu xsempat tgk dunia..cmno? adus. tempah tiket gi neraka kot..

sekadar utk berkongsi.. setiap bnde ditentukan mesti ade sebab musababnye..



11 comments:

duha said...

haha..simple..short but ABSOLUTELY true :)
Alhamdulillah you're the type that can accept good n true things like this..certain people cannot accept it eventhough they know it's rite.. everything in islam make sense and actually bagi benefit pada kita penganutnya..

tak percaya? kaji sndiri..hehehe

Unknown said...

btol3..upin n ipin pun setuju nina..
hehhhehehe
tu la pasal.kengkadng kite plak yg nmpak 'besalah' ble nak menjaga bab2 agma spt ini.
even in my family towards my uncles (yg kire btal air sembahyg tu.),bro in law, male cousins..
dieorg sbnrnyer bkn xtau hukum tp ntahla..buat2 xtau kot..
a regretful sigh~~ 'O Allah,please give them the Nur to understand the syariat..'-ameen-

Nina :) said...

yep duha n athe..tp, sestgh org, bukan diorang xnak trime.. tp sbnrnye xjmpe sbb lgi, n bg diorg klu sme org buat, then, its ok and acceptable.. bnde ni sgt2 vague, selagi kite xjmpe bukti, slagi tu kite rse bnde kite buat btul.. kite, manusia kn mmg degil sket. da tjatuh, bru nk terngadah..huhu..

maliQ said...

yeap2
we take stuff like this for granted
padehal life here is only temporary
n what we should "kejar" is the life hereafter which is forever or permananent

nasib baik aku x pernah couple btol2
hoho
nina... sep! (pakai glove sebelum sep)
XD

Al-Tuah Al-Shahab said...

salam,
yg penting bila ada ilmu amalkan dan smpaikan...
selalunya bila tgj org tu mcm baik kita terus anggap dia baik, tp xcukup baik klu org baik tu cuma baikkn diri sndiri tp org lain xdibaikkn...
tp, yg lebih teruk lagi org yg ckp xserupa bikin, indah kata dari kerjanya, paham2lah sndr...hehe

Nina :) said...

maliq: yeay maliq! sep dgn glove! haha

tuah: alamak tuah, sndri x baik lgi, cmne nk baikkn org..ini je la care halus nina nk tlg baikkn org.. mintk2 Allah bg hidayah pada kite sme.. n yeh..xserupa bikin tu mmg btul.. sme org pn pnh wt silap, yg penting sedar, n repent. kan?

aliah kama said...

terima kasih kawan :)

xive said...

Ntah kalau tusuk ngan besi pon diorang ni bukan nak amik iktibar.. kan aku tusuk ngan tulang kambing baru gelabah :P

Nina :) said...

haha.. okeh.
tulang kambing nmpknye lg menakutkan dr besi
tp kn, bkn sme org tau ayt ni..klu diorg tau, xdenye diorg nk buat, insyaAllah..
moral of the story, septtnye kite kne bljr alQuran n Hadith dr kecik..sume da ade dlm tu..kte tggl amalkn je..da bsr, sng.. :)

Dyra Sarun said...

salam,
yup it's me
noneed2noe tu...
slm perkenalan
n
mannaso bangabsumnida!

n thanx
4 wut u said...
mmg la i can accept the fact yg bnde 2 da ilang
after a couple of weeks
tp half of me still x redha
n wanna who is that person
n really..
it's hard...
tp
INSYAALLAH
lme2 leh kowt redha
not just half redha...
huhu


btw,
dyra bru form 1...
kak nina ex-rantau eh?
:D

Nina :) said...

oh baru form 1..
xde la.. aisyah tu anak kazen k nina
or sng cite, bapak aisyah = kazen k nina
knl kn aisyah?