moral dari buku

let it go. don't think too much about the person u're gonna spend your life with. or the person u hoped u'll spend your life with. restrict yourself from contacting unnecessarily. this will only lead to dreaming and hoping of something that might not come to reality. free yourself from this uncertainty. dating, coupling, holding hands, doing more than syara' allows, these acts doesn't prove anything if it is still uncertain.

"oh i love you, will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend?"
"oh you make me smile everyday, may i take this picture of us, cheek to cheek, as a memory?"

you know what, these acts does not make you one step closer to being together. cause you just don't know about fate and future. no one have a clue. only Allah knows. so when you think you're doing something to prove your love and to prove that you'll be together forever, you're just lying to yourself. and if the relationship doesn't end well, you'll start to think of these acts that you've done...you might feel regretful, or you might feel betrayed and hurt. if only you didn't start any of this. and when things starts to go wrong, people will start to blame God, who in the first place, already said "don't do it". shame on you, people.

mungkin sebab itu dalam Islam, kita tak boleh berhubungan dengan insan bukan muhrim, kalau tidak ada urusan. sebab Allah tahu, manusia tu lemah,saling memerlukan, dan perbezaan kita membuatkan kita tertarik sesama sendiri. dan anda mesti selalu dengar perkataan ini "cinta pertama adalah cinta yang terindah" apa salahnya cinta pertama itu kekal indah selama-lamanya? Allah tahu yang terbaik untuk kita. :)