marah marah emo emo lala lala

die marah die, saya marah die, kite marah bersama sama. yeahoo.. ok lets get this straight. whats with all this tension in the class?? wat is going on? asl sme nk emo2? asl org ni nk point org tu, nk blame evrythg, nk let go of the burden cmtu je? this is us, we work together, we move together.
so, here are a few steps for u*yg terse je* to take to solve all this mess:

1. be positive, think good thoughts
..dont just jump to the conclusion, think of the problem from another angle, from the other person's angle. don't see urself as the only who's right. u n evryone else is never perfect..

2. talk talk talk!
.. people are so egoistic and at the same time, so afraid to say the truth. voice out your opinion. dont be a coward and stuff all your anger and emotion. a good communication will lead to a good relationship. maybe its hard for any of us to talk while controlling our emotions. its okay to shout or cry or anything. its just your way of expressing your concern. not all people can understand you. but if you dont say anything, dont expect anything to be solved..

3. solve the problem, dont run away from it.
.. do whatever u want, but try to solve it. involve a big group of friends who'll stay diplomatic and dont pick sides. have a discussion or "sesi luah perasaan".. maybe we will end up in tears, maybe we will end up in anger, but atleast we are trying to find a solution here. u'll get lots of options to solve ur problem if u talk to different people.dont give up easily. what will happen if you keep stumbling into the same problem after this?

4. stay calm
.. dont show that ur driven by emotion. and be professional. just because u dont want to be associated with the person u hate, it doesnt mean that u should let it affect ur life. a work thing doesnt have to be a personal matter. when u come to the class or office, leave all ur problems that is not work-related at home. dont mix it up. it'll cost u.

5. grow up la
..maybe xsemua org can be matured at the same time. but for goodness sake, we're supposed to be adult now! its been more than 18 years. xckup2 lg ke mase tu? there's no time da for you to be mengada2..ur mom isnt here to help u, u know. if it were my mum or dad, they'll just say "get over it". and think, using ur head and conscience, and not ur emotions and feelings.
eee..menyampah ak nyah.(ish ak lak emosi.demm..haha)..

6. fake it..
..if u mmg da xleh thn da, just act as if nothing happen. lame2 u pon terse its nothing. and dont even try to say that u cant. we're all fakers la. dont bullshit me.

7. move along dey
..dont drag the problems for so long. org da naik bosan da dgn bnde yg sme all over again. make new problems, make new controversies if you want to. repetition is oh-so-boring.

8. dont say its nothing
..lagi2 when byk gle clue u leave behind! other people are not blind you know. even the blinds can feel it through the way you talk and act. obvious weh.

9. listen
..org nk tlg dgr la..jgn la masuk tinge kiri kuar tinge kanan. ape? ak ni xkan phm mslh kau? maybe my way is not the way u want it. i'm a logical thinker. dont expect me to understand all the unnecessary emotions. and if ur right, xkan i nk bangkang kn? i believe in justice. and dont just listen to the things u want. listen to everything, either u like it or not. and listening is not the same as hearing u know? listening is where u hear and think and process all the info at the same time. bukan smbil dgr, smbil pk ape nk mkn mlm ni.haiyooo..

10. give and take
..like i said, nobody is perfect. life is about balance kan? mengalah la sumtimes. and if people da mengalah to you, dont push it by still emo-ing. slowly be nice back to him/her. try accepting the good and the bad of that person. do u really think that u dont have any kelakuan yg buruk? owh puh-lease! gile SS..

i hope the steps, written down with emotions ni, will help. if it doesnt, u need a shrink. So, good night, sleep tight, jgn cekik2 org wktu tgh tido. daa~ :)

p.s: thanks mum. if it weren't for you, i'm not the survivor i am today. i wouldnt be this strong.